Psychology Dec 25, 2025 · 8 min read

How to Control Your Emotions:
Dealing with Anger and Anxiety

Learn how to control your emotions and deal with anger and anxiety effectively. Deepen your self-understanding through approaches based on Jungian psychology.

How to Control Your Emotions

Understanding Your Relationship with Emotions

We all experience various emotions that can shake us in our daily lives. Anger and anxiety, in particular, can sometimes influence our actions. Learning how to navigate these emotions can make everyday life a bit easier. Some research suggests that people who can engage well with their emotions tend to experience greater life satisfaction.

Tips for Engaging with Your Emotions

There are various approaches to working with emotions. The following steps may be helpful.

Step 1: Recognize Your Emotions

Why not start by simply noticing your emotions? Rather than ignoring or suppressing them, try honestly observing what you're feeling right now. The principles of ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) can provide useful guidance here.

Step 2: Explore the Causes

Next, it may be helpful to consider why that emotion arose. Using tools like archetype assessment can help you understand your tendencies and gain insight into situations that trigger emotions. For example, people with the "Flame Keeper" type are said to have a strong sense of responsibility and tend to try to meet others' expectations.

Step 3: Find Approaches That Work for You

Once you've recognized your emotions and explored their causes, why not try finding ways to address them? The following methods may be helpful:

  • Breathing techniques: Deep breathing can help calm your mind. The 4-7-8 breathing method is one well-known technique.
  • Mindfulness: Focusing on the present moment may help create some distance from anxiety and anger.
  • Journaling: Writing your emotions in a journal can help organize your thoughts.

Jung's Personality Theory and Self-Understanding

Jung's personality theory offers one perspective for understanding yourself. Soul Compass provides an opportunity to explore your tendencies through archetype assessment. Learning about yourself may offer hints for how to engage with your emotions.

About Archetype Assessment

Archetype assessment can be an opportunity to learn your type and think about how to engage with your emotions. For example, people with the "Mirror Soul" type tend to be sensitive to relationships with others, so focusing on self-affirmation may be helpful.

Practical Examples in Daily Life

Being mindful of how you engage with emotions in daily life may help you notice gradual changes. Here are some examples.

Incorporating Mindfulness into Daily Life

Even in a busy daily routine, it may be possible to incorporate mindfulness. For example, when drinking your morning coffee, consciously focusing on its aroma and taste can help calm your mind.

Trying Affirmations

Speaking positive words to yourself may help lighten your mood. Saying something like "I'll be myself today" in the morning is one approach.

What Engaging with Emotions Can Bring

Being mindful of how you engage with emotions can change how you spend your days. As your understanding of your own emotions deepens, it may also have positive effects on your relationships with others.

Toward Peaceful Days

Being mindful of how you engage with emotions may help you feel more peaceful in the long term. Approaching your emotions with kindness can lead to emotional stability.

Conclusion

Exploring how to engage with your emotions may be one way to deepen self-understanding. Soul Compass provides an opportunity to learn about yourself through archetype assessment. If you're interested, why not try the assessment and explore hints for engaging with your emotions? We hope you find more days of peace in your own unique way.

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